How to Get ABA Therapy for Your Child: A Step-by-Step Guide

If you're looking into ABA therapy for the first time, the process can feel overwhelming — diagnosis, insurance, waitlists, paperwork. Here's the short version: most families move through six steps, from confirming a diagnosis to starting regular sessions, and the whole path usually takes anywhere from a few weeks to a few months depending on your insurance and location. Below, we walk through each step so you know what to expect and how to move through it faster.

Step 1: Get an Autism Diagnosis (or Confirm Your Child Is Eligible)

ABA therapy is typically covered by insurance only after a child has a formal autism diagnosis, usually made through an evaluation like the ADOS-2 (Autism Diagnostic Observation Schedule). If your child hasn't been evaluated yet, your pediatrician can refer you to a developmental pediatrician, psychologist, or clinic that performs autism evaluations.

If your child already has a diagnosis in hand, you can skip ahead to Step 2. If you just received one, take a breath first — we've put together a guide on what to focus on in the days and weeks right after diagnosis. (link to: /resources/what-to-do-after-autism-diagnosis)

Step 2: Understand Your Insurance and Funding Options

Once you have a diagnosis, the next step is figuring out how ABA therapy will be paid for. In California, Intercare partners with major insurance providers, including Anthem Blue Cross, Blue Shield of California, Beacon Health Options, Catalight, Molina Healthcare, Optum, Uprise Health, and Magellan Health. If you're in Colorado or Massachusetts, coverage details can differ — your intake coordinator will confirm your specific plan's benefits before your first appointment.

Most commercial insurance plans are required by state law to cover ABA therapy for autism, but the process usually involves prior authorization, meaning your provider needs to submit paperwork before sessions can begin. This is normal and typically doesn't require any extra effort on your part beyond providing your insurance information.

Step 3: Find an ABA Provider and Reach Out

Not all ABA providers are the same size, and they don't all offer the same settings. Some offer center-based therapy, some offer in-home therapy, and some offer both. Before you commit, it's worth asking a few questions: What ages do they serve? Do they offer both center-based and in-home options? How experienced are their supervising clinicians?

At this stage, most families reach out to two or three providers, ask about availability, and confirm insurance is accepted before moving forward.

Step 4: Complete Intake and Assessment

Once you've chosen a provider, they'll schedule an intake assessment — usually a session where a Board Certified Behavior Analyst (BCBA) meets your child and observes their current skills across communication, social interaction, play, and daily routines. This assessment shapes your child's individualized treatment plan and determines the recommended number of therapy hours per week.

You'll typically meet the BCBA who will oversee your child's care during this step, and you'll have a chance to ask questions about their background and experience. (link to: /clinical-team)

Step 5: Expect a Possible Waitlist

Depending on your location and the time of year, there may be a waitlist between intake and your child's first regular session. Waitlists happen because qualified behavior technicians and supervising BCBAs need to be matched to each child's schedule and needs — it's not a sign that anything is wrong with your application.

While you wait, ask your provider what you can do at home in the meantime. Many providers, including Intercare, offer parent guidance during this period so families aren't just waiting passively.

Step 6: Start Therapy and Know What Ongoing Care Looks Like

Once services begin, your child will work with a consistent care team, typically a behavior technician delivering day-to-day sessions under the supervision of a BCBA who adjusts the treatment plan over time. Progress is measured through data collected during sessions, and your BCBA will review it with you regularly — usually every few months, or sooner if your child's needs change.

Therapy can be delivered at a center, in your home, or through a combination of both, depending on what your child responds to best.

Frequently Asked Questions

How long does it take to start ABA therapy after diagnosis?
It varies, but most families begin services within 4–12 weeks of diagnosis, depending on insurance approval time and provider availability in your area.

Do I need a diagnosis before I can start the process?
You need a diagnosis before insurance will cover ABA therapy, but you can start researching providers and asking questions before that evaluation is complete.

What if my child is already on a waitlist somewhere else?
You can be on more than one provider's waitlist at the same time. Many families do this to reduce total wait time.

Will my insurance really cover this?
Most state-regulated commercial insurance plans are required to cover ABA therapy for autism, though coverage details, session limits, and copays vary by plan. Your provider's intake team can verify your specific benefits before you commit to anything.